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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd probably still go, because I wouldn't want to blow up the whole trip for everyone--the trip is too far along and too much money has been sunk into it.  But I also would not make any effort to keep secrets or hide anything from A's spouse.  If I would have otherwise talked about the trip to the spouse, I'm not going to bite my tongue.  I'm not going to hide the fact that B is there.  I'm not going to censor the pictures I post on FB.  And I'm certainly not going to lie for A.[/quote]

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I'm inclined to do this. It's the path of least resistance and probably the most likely course of action. I already know that one of the spouses attending the trip is going to flip the f#ck out when they see what's happening; they are very straight-laced and it's just their personality to directly inquire. They will be very upset to be put in such a situation by Friend A.

I know my spouse will want all the dirt and will basically require me to post on social media 24/7 while overseas. I won't hold back on tagging. It will be interesting to see if Friend A and Newbie B ask all of us to not put them on social media. The whole scenario is just so cavalier and bizarre.[/quote]

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