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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why do people insist on throwing the word "judging" around as a badge of shame?

YES I'm JUDGING your character if you cheat on an unknowing spouse and want to bring your f*cktoy around me. Am I supposed to turn a blind eye toward everything anyone ever does lest I be "judgy"? Is discernment and character not a thing anymore?

Keep your dirt to yourself. I'm not perfect but yes, there are lines that can be crossed to make me question our friendship.[/quote]
I can tell you the same: keep your opinions and "knowledge" to yourself. What drives you to blab to the person you barely know? If you have a problem with your friend, then tell her whatever you think, so she can end that friendship. Why do you want to make a, basically, stranger feel annoyed or bad or sad or angry? Do you just love to feel superior?[/quote]

I don't even know what you're referencing? I would never gossip. If I have a problem with a friend, I approach that friend. If I have a question regarding my friend's character, I question my friend. I'd never, like other PPs go on to "tell" other friends regardless of the circumstances. I'm not sure I even understand this rambling response. My point was simply what I stated because this is a forum for discussion and I was responding the word "judging" being thrown about. I don't feel superior to anyone. AS STATED I'm not perfect - but this scenario is not one in which "judging" should come into play.[/quote]

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