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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Everyone has speculated that a move would be terrible for the kids because they’re mad at OP’s wife for having an affair. But no one actually knows if the move would be that bad for them. She could very well be an outstanding mother and [b]her new husband a great stepdad. [/b]The way their relationship started is irrelevant so stop focusing on that. The issue is how the kids will be treated now. Period. [/quote]

Or perhaps he's a molester.  A prudent molester would want the children far away from the dad, other family, and any other support systems the children have so he can molest them without interference. [/quote]

A'prudent' molester? ? Seriously?

Children who have support systems generally also can create and maintain new ones, while keeping old ones intact. Your thoughts are a little off-base.

OP I've posted a few times in this thread and you haven't updated any info - I just think if possible approach the situation with compassion and understanding, voicing your wants and needs but also hearing hers.[/quote]

A reasonably intelligent person would assume it was hyperbolic demonstrating how silly it was to speculate like the pp did when she assigned positive qualities to Chester the molester. Prior to sweating all this, maybe the wife wants a little honeymoon time and is going to ask OP if he's willing to take on a bigger custody burden.[/quote]

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