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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP all these folks telling you to go ahead and have kids. Lol. Your not a kid yourself: if you don’t want kids you don’t want kids! It’s a legitimate decision! [/quote]

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Yes, and if she absolutely doesn't then time to real up with this guy, right now.

She seems to be expressing some uncertainty about the finality of this decision, and that's what people are speaking to - not trying to convince her to have kids, but telling her not to make that decision based on her experience as a nanny (especially given the fact that she's always wanted kids, and that this is a very new line of thinking for her)[/quote]

There is no experience that is the “right” experience from which to decide to have kids. If she had said she realized how much she WANTED kids after being a nanny or a teacher, there would not be a bunch of posts telling her that she needs to decide based on a different experience. Most people who want kids don’t even have a concrete reason-it’s just a feeling.  She should make the decision based on whatever matters to her. It sounds like she has assessed her own interests, passions and limits.
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