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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP. I think you need to accept that as adults, we can choose the people we spend time with. The reality is that for whatever reasons, your sister/s don’t want to spend time with you anymore. Like the other PPs, I’m finding your victim mentality and constant excuses to be exhausting. And I wasn’t even affected by you growing up. I would be moving on too.

Focus on trying to be a person who adds value to others’ lives and find some friends and let your sisters live their own lives.[/quote]

+100.
Sad fact is that OP's sisters can decide who they wan to spend time with and who they do not want to spend time with because they are all adults now. Sisters now have the option to include/exclude you and you cannot change that, OP.  You just have to accept the fact that sisters all have something against you.  
Deal this estrangement by leaving them alone and be happy for them from a distance, can you do that? I mean, if I knew that I am a burden to my siblings, I would limit contact with them from my end because I would not want to inconvenience them and at the same time feel isolated myself when I am with them.  You just have to swallow it and start developing your own circle of friends.  No more relying on your siblings for the lost friendship (friendship that you may have been able to built had you born healthy kid?)   [/quote]

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