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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I have read all the posts, yours especially. It seems like people have given you a lot of very good suggestions.  I have not seen a single suggestion that you have whole-heartedly or even half-a**ed embraced.

You want to visit your FIL on YOUR terms and it doesn't seem like anything else will do.  I say this because for every suggestion that has been put forward, you've given a "reason" (read excuse) why that suggestion won't work.

At this point I think you need to reconcile yourself to the fact that you are entrenched in your perspective.  It really seems as though it is your way or the highway, baby.

If you truly want to change the status quo then you need to make the first change.  When you're ready to do that, come back and read the responses you've gotten by all the posters.  There is no doubt in my mind that some of these suggestions will work when you're willing to make them work![/quote]

I think you describe many posters on Dcum, but I don't think this is an accurate description of OP. I think OP has already tried many of the suggestions, but does sound open to reconsidering. [/quote]

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