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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Rule of thumb:  “You look ______” (nice, beautiful, tired) = never ok
“I like your _______” (shoes, haircut, scarf) = fine [/quote]

Never tell a woman she has lost a LOT of weight. Never ask a woman if her hair color or hair is real or if any other body parts are real or not.[/quote]

I think that if someone goes to the effort of coloring their hair, artistically plastering color on their face, putting metallic pieces on their body that serve no function beyond how they look, wearing shoes that obviously aren't designed for comfort and function, etc, then they want people to notice how they look. However, they probably don't want people to notice (and certainly not remark on) how they want people to notice how they look.

So I think commenting on anything that involves discomfort or work in the name of looking good is likely to offend someone, and therefore possibly attract complaints of some description.[/quote]

This is a uniquely insightful viewpoint. It is kind of Vulcan. [/quote]

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