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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Trust your instincts. [b]Divorced woman who is way too friendly with your husband and actively asks about him, seeks him out, and offers him rides in the mornings isn't a good sign[/b].[/quote]

Just tell her this and get it over with. Perhaps she just doesn’t understand boundaries. 
Really though it would be a way worse sign if this was going on behind your back. I think that she’s harmless. Harmless and lonely. [/quote]

Lonely, yes. Probably harmless. But i think you should trust your gut and keep an eye on her. But I wouldn't stop being her friend if I otherwise liked her. And I wouldn't be outright rude like you were at the park. A woman (friend of a friend) I got to know behaved like this with my husband. I was an idiot. While I noticed it, and I didn't like it, I ignored her behavior and told myself to get over it. Years later, my husband told me she did try to put the moves on him one night at our own house after I went to bed (big party, only 3 or 4 guests left when I turned in). I should have confronted her her previously, when I saw what she was doing.

It was very much like you describe, op: always asking about him in a way that was just disconcerting, like I'd say hi to her, and she'd respond "is Larlo here?" She mentioned a group beach vacation with our mutual friends. I told her we were already invited, but declined due to my work schedule. She said "Oh that's too bad. Larlo could go, though, right? It's just a couple days, you'd be working anyway, you wouldn't miss him."

Ugh. Op, just tell her she's being inappropriate. If she truly didn't realize it, she'd back off. [/quote]

[b]Yep - this is what she's up to and boy is it obvious and desperate of her.  It's o.k. to be a little rude to her actually because she isn't being nice and respectful to you and your marriage.  She isn't your "friend", Op.  [/b]

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