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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am OP and I like all the candor in this thread.   I think I narrowed down my problem to one of not really knowing what I want -- I like sex but am not willing to wait for The One (and am not keen on marriage, again) and yet, I want the companionship of one great guy, which doesn't happen when your profile is unambiguously inviting NSA sex.

So, I either have to deny my libido, or deny my heart/head, or hope that I fall into bed with the one that has it all -- which is sort of what an earlier poster said was the 20's MO.

I guess I need to get out more to do non-date stuff, which will be better for me anyway and give me more to talk about on dates.....if I ever have them again!! [/quote]

Yes, I think many of us are in this situation. I think you are clear on what you want, but as a previous poster said, it seems much easier for men to meet many women who fit their criteria and not the same the other way round for us. I just had this play out recently as I mentioned before-met someone I really liked online for the first time ever but I guess had sex too soon (second date). I never ever do that but it felt right on this one occasion because I felt he was different. With retrospect, I should have waited as I obviously got judged for that. Golf and sierra club are maybe the way to go![/quote]

"it seems much easier for men to meet many women who fit their criteria and not the same the other way round for us"

Women could try having less than 4,275 criteria for a man they want to date. Just sayin'

That aside, it isn't necessarily true that you had sex "too soon" and got judged for it. Could be any number of other things. Could be as simple as "he's not looking for an LTR, he just wants a series of ONS".[/quote]

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