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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would want him to take his profile down with no promise of a physical relationship and be willing to date for as long as it took for me to decide I wanted a long term relationship. If he isn't willing to take a risk on me long enough to give me time to figure things out on my schedule he isn't work the effort required for me to decide how I feel about him.[/quote]

Hopefully you’ve found or will find the guy that feels the same.  IMO, it’s easier to find that if the person isn’t using online dating.  I started dating right when chat rooms and online dating were taking off.  Before that, it wasn’t easy to meet someone.  I wasn’t doing much social during the work week and weekends I had to be going out to a bar, party, club, group outing that included guys etc. to have a small chance of meeting someone and we both had to be single and someone have enough courage to risk in person rejection by asking for a phone number.  It’s amazing I met anyone.  So it wasn’t giving up much to focus on one person early with no idea if it would pan out because it could take 2 months to meet anyone else!

Anyway, I personally am not a fan of the give the person all the time in the world to decide how they feel about me while I wait patiently not dating anyone else not even knowing if things will be romantic. It would feel like I’m taking all the risks and the other person gets to decide if I’m worthy.  But I could see how it could work if both people had the same mindset.[/quote]

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