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[quote=Anonymous]When you say your DH is a biglaw partner, that could mean $350k a year, or $2m a year. I'm a biglaw partner, so I know. If he's on the low end ($500k or less), sure get a housekeeper and a few hours a week of childcare. But at that income, I don't think you can justify 20 hours a week of childcare, biweekly cleaning, a housekeeper, and lawn care. Also, if you start outsourcing all those things with just one kid, your spouse is entirely justified in asking why you shouldn't just go back to work. But my guess is you will end up divorced, given that your DH already sounds like a bit of an ass. Sorry. But most biglaw partners aren't like that. They may be absent a lot, but they're not outright hostile to their spouses. [/quote]
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