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[quote=Anonymous]There is no hard rule for any of this. Just like weddings or birthdays these days, really anything goes. DD will have her bat mitzvah this Fall and she will be grateful for whatever she gets. More important to her right now is her mitzvah project and she will be asking people to help support it. In fact if it's either/or then she would probably rather the guest spends money on the project. And before you jump to conclusions, we are not wealthy-HHI < 120. But I think the kids today are taught to focus more on how they can make an impact on their community during the b'nai mitzvot process and the kids are excited to show what they can do. To answer your question, it is fine to give what you would give for a birthday gift. Or give more if you would like. Kids know it's generally the parents who buy the gift, not the friend, and the kid is just happy to have her peers at the event. [/quote]
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