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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I do not think ANYONE should marry before 30. I married just shy of 32 (I am a woman). I would not do it again at all--ever. I think it is a completely outdated institution. I did not think this before marriage. Man, do I think it now. [/quote]

I’m sorry you chose poorly. And I don’t mean that in a snarky way. [/quote]

I did not choose poorly. Everyone things are lives are perfect. I just don't like being married. I am an introvert and value my free time. I am not a family person. I find it exhausting.[/quote]

I know married people who rarely see extended family and have plenty of free time.  I think this is more about the dynamic in your particular relationship.[/quote]

I'm not PP, nor do I dislike being married, but I understand what she means. As an introvert, it's often an effort to come home and socialize with my husband and very young children. I adore them but most days I just want to shut the world off, talk to no one, curl up with a book. It feels exhausting just to have to hold up a conversation. But I am a wife and a parent and part of a family, and while my husband is great at giving me breaks, it's just not realistic on a daily basis. So I push through it and overall I am happy. But I can see how it could have gone the other way too.  [/quote]

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