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[quote=Anonymous]OP, most people have given advice to your brother, so here's some for you (since you asked for that).  Listen to him when he says bad things about his wife, but don't partake.  Do not slam her, do not discuss her with other people, do not bad mouth her to anyone.  For one thing, your nieces and nephews are going to bear the brunt of this even though they are innocent.  It will not help them if people are saying their mom is a whore.  Be someone who loves the whole family unconditionally (at least in your words and actions - feel free to secretly hate her all you want).  For another thing, if your brother and his wife ever reconcile, you do not want to be the one who was against her while they went through a bad patch.  I'm not saying you should condone her actions.  And feel free to confide in your best friend (who promises to keep their mouth shut).  For everyone else, keep it neutral.  It might feel good to sling mud at his wife but it won't work out well for anyone in the end.  Take the high road.  It has much less traffic anyway.[/quote]

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