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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]IMO if you as the parents are paying for school, it’s fine to limit the type of degree program you are willing to pay for.[/quote]
Do you have children? I ask because that is incredibly harsh and controlling. Setting parameters such as maintaining a certain grade point average as a condition for paying tuition is one thing. But setting a specific major as a condition for paying is a whole other ballgame. That’s not what being a loving and supportive parent is about. It’s a sure route to a fractured relationship, especially pulling it halfway into the kid’s college experience. [/quote]

Parents work hard, save money every year since their kids were babies and if they see their young adult child spending that hard earned money in a frivolous way, I can see pulling back the funding.

This is not to say that teaching is a "frivolous" profession, not at all.  But if she has suddenly switched to teaching, the reasons for her rather abrupt major change should be discussed.  M[b]ake sure she is doing this for the right reasons[/b].[/quote]

She has explained why she wants to do it.

What "right reasons" would justify it in your view?

You pulled back on "frivolous," but it is obvious that yes, you think teaching is a lightweight profession, not worthy of an intellectual heavyweight.  Just say it.[/quote]

No, I think that teaching is an honorable profession that requires a different sort of talent than, say, Accounting does.  Switching from Accounting to Education because the course load in Accounting is killing you is not a good reason to go into teaching.  Passing education courses is not what is going to make a person a great teacher.  You have to like and want to work with kids.  If you don't like working with kids you are going to hate life as a teacher.[/quote]

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