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[quote=Anonymous]I went to a preppy New England boarding school and the biggest difference I noticed is that people who are rich don't need to prove to anyone they are rich. If anything, they competed over who lived a simpler life. There were no BMWs on campus, though I'm sure at least some parents could afford to buy a new car for their high school kid. People wore a lot of LLBean and JCrew (durable but not flashy). I really liked this laidback approach and it rubbed off on me. I was not ashamed of getting hand-me-down baby clothes--I thought it was practical. I don't want to drive a fancy car, because I feel like it's in poor taste/flaunting one's money. And this approach for the most part does keep you from going overboard. We don't spend our whole pay check, but without that much conscious effort. Also, my DH is good with finances, which has set us way ahead. Again, it's not something easy to replicate, because I for one can't force myself to care, but I do recognize that it works. He thinks about best ways of handling money, does some research, and acts accordingly. I can spend hours reading child care forums, but financial stuff is boring to me, and would be hard to do on my own. I think this is really why rich people want their kids to be surrounded by the other rich, so that these good habits stick.[/quote]
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