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You're right that BFDW may not be that into me or DW, but[b] I'm still confused as to why[/b].

additional info: BF and I are going on two trips together-one in May, another in October. [/quote]

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Seriously, OP?? First, I don't believe that you like your BFDW.  And reading between the lines, it's clear you think she's the outsider to your little group - even though your BF and she were married before you and your wife - basically making YOUR WIFE the outsider.

This blind-eye you have that your wife could do nothing wrong so anything that resembles that the wives don't get along is all BFDW's fault - that it's her "lack of consideration and desire to be part of the group"

that's what stands out to me.  You talk as if it's you, your wife and BF on one side and your BFDW on the other.  You even say that in one of your posts - you say you're frustrated that she's  "not being more considerate of BF and us"

that's VERY CLEAR and don't think it goes unnoticed by her.

Another point?  You are assuming she's in charge of all their travel and that he just follows suit.  You have no idea what goes on behind closed doors, OP.  And assuming it's all her fault is in really poor taste and shows that you don't respect your BF's marriage.  You need to start assuming that they are a team and a united family now.  [/quote]

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