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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think OP has a right to be pissed at (mostly) BF and (a little) BFDW.

[b]It sounds like BFDW dominates their travel, no?[/b]

And BF knew she wasn't going...he could've said something earlier in the process to avoid this kind of mess.

OP seems angry and resentful about this, but I don't think him labeling her "selfish" or "frosty" indicative of bad feelings toward her. Those may well be facts for all we know. OP's perception of her behavior toward OPDW is his own, too.

Especially considering BFDW has shown a certain amount of selfishness from what we have been told. [/quote]

Well, he's traveling with BF in May and October and he's coming with his mom for this planned trip, so I think it's a bit of a stretch to say she's dominating their travel.  It's not like he hasn't seen his friend since the wedding.  It's not selfish for her to decide what she wants to do with her own time, and she's not stopping BF from seeing OP multiple times a year.

You could make an argument that OP is selfish for making them fly to see him at his new hometown instead of meeting them in their city or somewhere neutral.[/quote]
This.  Nothing about OP's description suggests that she's controlling or dominating--she's not stopping her husband from seeing his friend, she's just not going along this trip.  [/quote]

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