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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like you don't really like her either,[b] so I'm not sure why you are so fixated on this being a couples' get together[/b]. My DH and I go on girls/guys trips without each other pretty much annually, and that's without disliking each other's friends.  Just meet up with him without her and don't worry so  much about whether she doesn't like your wife or is jealous of her.  [/quote]

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I mentioned in an earlier response that this is a couples' trip that we plan every year. Hence the "fixation", which was actually just a "plan". [/quote]

That doesn't change the fact that you don't have a single good thing to say about this woman, but you have a weird entitlement to her time and attention.  Even if I liked one of my DH's friends, if I found out he thought I 1) was jealous of his wife's looks (?) and 2) thought I was selfish for not spending my vacation time with them, I'd stop seeing that couple in a minute.  And that's not even to address the fact that you don't know what's going on with her - she might not be feeling well, she might be worried about her job, she might be dealing with a personal matter you know nothing about.  There are plenty of legitimate reasons to decide not to go on a trip, and the fact that you spent money before they told you they were coming for sure doesn't make her the bad guy.  You leapt before you looked; that's on you.

You're the problem here, OP.  There's a strange mix of narcissism and immaturity in these posts, and getting defensive isn't helping.  [/quote]

Pretty weird thread here but OP post was not about whether he liked BFDW.

We only get a sense of his resentment but its pretty clear that he likes BF and DW.  [/quote]

He thinks she's frosty, jealous, and incapable of befriending women, and that it's not fair that she won't use her time off of work for a trip to see him and his baby (which will make [b]3[/b] such trips for BF this year alone).  How do you come up with "its pretty clear he likes" her?[/quote]

I'm pretty sure pp is saying that OP likes OP, OPDW and BF but that it is clear he does not like BFDW from his langauge in describing her.[/quote]

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