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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sounds like you're taking the correct course of action.  Don't let your guard down just because he's making some positive changes.

Move back to your own place.  If you still want to see him, you can continue to date while living in two different places.  I wouldn't let him move into your condo, because then he'll essentially be giving up his house to his daughter and may even bring the grandkids into YOUR condo for babysitting.  Don't allow that drama into your own space.  [b]If the daughter ever moves out, wait at least six months to make sure the change sticks before combining households again.[/b] [/quote]
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Agree with all of this. 
Good for you OP for sticking to your guns![/quote]

This.  Here is my thing.  I get him wanting to make sure his daughter launches and he doesn’t want to throw his grandkids out, there may even be some divorce guilt involved.  He maybe even believes his daughter wouldn’t be there long etc.  Many a parent has been too optimistic for their own good or afraid to set boundaries boundaries/rules.  Where I do fault him is allowing you to be taken advantage of with the babysitting and not having daughter clean up after herself when it is shared common space for everyone.  
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