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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

The suggestions in this thread are killing what little hope I have. They all boil down to re-raising this man-child and sending him to therapy/treatment while I continue to slave, in the hopes he may be remotely useful one day. And that is even assuming I can convince him he needs help. All of this is a huge ask and not feasible in our current lives.

I know the “right” thing to say here is that I am going to spend what little free time I have helping him get better, but I can’t do this. I cannot parent this helpless adult. I have carried him for almost a decade now and am out of patience and love. I am angry and tired and wish I had never met him. It is simply not fair to ask women (who would ask this of a man?) to take on so much.

I have about 5 years to go until DD is old enough to take care of herself in a shared custody scenario. In the meantime, I am ready to give up on him and cheat to get by.

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OP, THE ONLY THING YOU NEED CAN DO AT THE MOMENT IS, don't have another baby with HIM!
Wait and see if things get better when your child is older, but repeat, DO NOT HAVE another baby...get help for yourself and make your life easier for yourself, you are over tried, you need rest!
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OP here. Thank you. There is not a chance in hell I am having another child with him and restarting the clock on all this misery. I find myself wishing we didn’t even have the one child. She was an oopsie and I love her, but if not for her, I would be long gone.[/quote]
An oopsie? Let me guess, you relied on him for the birth control. [/quote]

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