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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just don’t know if any woman truly loves a man for himself. Everywhere I look around me I see women settling down with men based very obviously on external factors.

“ oh his family is blue blood”
“ he is a McKinsey consultant”
“He is so logical and smart”
“ I know he will never have trouble getting hired”
“ he got me a bracelet from Tiffany’s”

I never hear anything about the mans personal attributes. It’s so obvious that if their boyfriend in question did not come with all his trappings of wealth or a good job or family status...the woman would never date him.

I’ve also seen perfectly wonderful guys in[b] the retail industry[/b] being turned down by these same women because the guy didn’t have all of the above.

Is true love dead? Did it ever exist?

Would Meghan Markle love harry if he wasn’t the prince Harry?[/quote]

No middleclass woman is excited to date a guy in retail. So put this out of your mind.

I have an answer for you.  [b]You think love is dead because you're angling above your station.  Think about girls for whom a guy who works retail would be a catch.  Look there.  That's where love (for the guys who work retail) is alive and well[/b]. [/quote]
This! in my 20's I had a boyfriend who was friends with a guy who worked for Metro. We hung out with the guy and his girlfriend one night and she was SO PROUD of him and happy, while I would never have dated a train operator (sorry/not sorry). I think she was a CNA or a home health aide. There is a lid for every pot, life is just easier when you stop expecting to fit a Le Creuset lid on a Walmart pot. Crude analogy, but you get my point.[/quote]

Be yourself and don't try to sell yourself as something you are not, OP.  [/quote]

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