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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you really serious when you say that you are not sure you could stop yourself if she made the first move?

How old are you? 2? Please...

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This could be me but the other way around and I've never even thought of cheating on my husband after almost 20 years of marriage.  Sucks to feel like this.[/quote]

You don't feel like this. You CHOOSE this. You understand that, right? You don't just magically want to f*ck someone that you're working with. It's how you choose to view them. That guy is the same guy that works down the hall, the same guy you pass on the street every day. There is nothing special about him. It's about your, your choices, and your dissatisfaction at home. [/quote]

I am the one who asked OP if he was 2 year old. I disagree that people choose to have feelings for others.

Sometimes when you see someone everyday, you can develop those feelings even if you do not want to. We are all human.

However, you 100% choose whether to act on them or not.  The whole "I was too weak to resist" is bullshit.

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I'm the one who wrote that this could be me and that's exactly it PP.  I wasn't attracted to him at all at first...the more we get to know each other is where the attraction builds.  I would never act on it.  NEVER.[/quote]

I think this idea that we are completely not in control of our emotions is pretty silly.  We're not teenagers.  Yes, you can enjoy a co-workers company and admire them, but if you go home and choose to fixate and fantasize about that person, that's all on you.  You're an adult.[/quote]

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