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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. First off I’m not ugly or weird. Handsome and shy more like it. My wife actually married up in looks and no, I’m not deluded, just honest. Second I’m not abusive. I’m just shocked this old her isn’t matching up with the new. We have lots of predictable, routine type sex which is good but not as free or exciting as I think her past was. She’s a high strung lawyer now with kids (100% not cheating) so I think life is to blame for her more restrained libido.

I’m more jealous she had this experience and I didn’t. Internal reasons have lessened and external [b]opportunities are presenting now[/b] (which weren’t there when I was younger)[b] to grow my social circle and date/meet a ton of women [/b](interest is heavily reciprocated). I’d never act on any of it but I do feel resentment my life has worked out backwards (inner issues and limited external opportunities when I was younger to more confidence and high external opportunities when married). That’s my frustration.

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This post has very little to do with your wife's past and everything to do with you trying to justify having an affair. You want to sleep with other women. Just be honest. Don't talk around the truth by calling your wife of 13 years, and mother of your children, a slut. Look at the truth and accept it. I suggest you talk to a therapist and work through your insecurities. Sooner or later these insecurities will destroy your family's happiness - if they haven't already. [/quote]

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