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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a DW who went through this problem (my DH did not like my number *at all*). Here's the thing- women like sex. We like sex with men we are attracted to. So when we meet a guy we like, we have sex with him. [b]Guys, for whatever reason, tend to lose interest in us after we have sex[/b]. So we spend our 20s getting burnt because we like a guy, sleep with him, then get dumped and never hear from him again.

Eventually we figure out the cycle and separate guys into 2 categories- those for fun, and those for relationships. Fun guys we use for sex, because remember, we like sex, too. So we can sleep with them early on and do some crazier things with them because we don't really care if we ever see them again. With relationship guys, we set rules of "no sex for 2 months" or whatever because we know if we do it too early, the guy will bail. It's stupid, but years of being dumped, it becomes necessary. So we make you work for it for a bit and do our best to act chaste because y'all have these weird hang-ups about "slutiness".

Just some perspective. It's not that you're foolish, it's that she knew sleeping with you too early would cause you to lose interest. I know without a doubt if I had slept with my DH right away, we would not be married today.

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It had been the opposite for every woman I am friends with and me. It's never the sex part that causes the break up. No wonder people have so many issues. None of us want the guys with madonna complex.
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