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[quote=Anonymous]Women use low libido as an excuse.

Every woman I've known who said this ended up having an affair.  All along, the problem wasn't low libido; it was lack of sexual attraction to their spouse.

Barring a health or mental health issue (e.g., painful sex, cancer, or severe depression), the issue is often that, while the woman likes her husband and may even love him, she just no longer feels sexually excited about him.  She may even truly believe it's just low libido... until she meets a guy who does excite her.  But if her marriage is otherwise good and stable and financially good, she won't leave her husband.

I'm sure that sounds harsh, but I'm just going by a number of situations I've seen, female friends and relatives.

The problem is that other women will encourage the self-delusion that it's low libido by insisting that women just aren't sexual or naturally lose interest in sex.  That's not true.

Again, health or mental health issues are different.  If your wife is suffering from depression or another illness or is taking medication that has side effects, then what I've said above does not apply.[/quote]

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