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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, what would be the reasons to stay together with your wife other than for your child?[/quote]

because 98% of the time we love each other dearly and are like best friends. We have the same interests, philosophical approach, and the chemistry between us-we have all the intangibles for a successful partnership.

Its that 2% of the time when we are fighting.

I am determined to not have any more yelling or fighting in the house with the kid there. I'm not saying its ok when he's not there, either.

I do love this woman and I love her family, as well. They have taken me in and they have intervened with her before when she suffered from post-partum.[/quote]
Can you find in you not to start the conversations with "I really wish you would.."? We just tried it at home. It immediately escalated. We died laughing, but it was impossible to do it without escalation. We could not come up with a phrase that wouldn't cause escalation. From "I really wish you put dishes in the dishwasher " to "I really wish you pay attention when I am asking you about ..." and "I really wish you were more careful so we still get to have you alive". [/quote]

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