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[quote=Anonymous]It's "her baby" that she's not feeding, but "our son" that you want custody of?

communicating "openly" by text is kind of an oxymoron.

interesting.

It is obviously a hugely unhealthy and unsustainable dynamic. But if are totally convinced that you are 100 percent perfect nd she is 100 percent at fault, you will continue to have a terrible relationship and conflict over co-parenting.

Screaming "you're not listening to me" could be "you're not complying with me." But it could also be "you dont understand me, you're not acknowledging what I am feeling."  I think your issues as a couple go way back and are so entangled in feeligns of resentment, blame, anger that there is no way that either of you sees things objectively and you have hunkered down into positions where you seem to be unable to even have a conversation.

I would suggest therapy to mediate discussion between the two of you going forth if only to limit the damage to the child caught in this situation. [/quote]

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