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[quote=Anonymous]H accidentally synced his phone to our apple account and I received all his texts... so did my teen son.

The next day, I asked him to move to the guest room.

My teen son already knew and could not handle lying to his brother so I told my other son, who spent 2 weeks in bed crying.

Kids did not talk to him for 6 months... we all lived in the same house. The younger one might talk to him once or twice a week. The therapist told him it is up to him to heal their relationship, it is not my job.

I was fine with it actually, a little pissed but I am very radically accepting... of people not their actions. He suffers from PTSD so i was use to eradicate behavior from him.

I have friends/family/money so my life did not change much. It sucks not having somebody to spend the rest of your life with but I am older and men die and I have my friends (1/2 are widowed or divorced).

He did the crime so he is doing the time, which means he is single (can't date since he can't afford to move out) and his kids basically think he is a rube. It's hard to parent a teen when they have no respect for you so I am stuck with all the parenting.

They constantly ask me... "why did you marry him?" I just say he was pretty awesome before PTSD. 
Why are you so nice to him? I just say, "it' take more energy to be mad"

They are coming around.

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