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Thank you, I agree with you completely. It was a mistake for me to post here. I know my situation is unusual but you would think that after I explained I actually spoke to doctors who confirmed my fiance's death, that people wouldn't be so ignorant and insensitive to keep speculating that he's being held captive or that something "fishy" is going on. Grief is a very lonely island in the situation I'm in. Pretty much no one understands what I'm going through because most families don't act the way my fiance's family does. T[b]hey made his life hell and are now doing it to me because he isn't around anymore. [/b][/quote]

They are continuing to make your life hell because you are allowing it.  These people are on a different continent, they only have any relation to your day to day life because you allow it. Cut them off; your life connected to them died when your fiance died.  Be done with them.

You cannot erase the past.  You cannot change that they invaded your privacy, so just become no one to them.   You're going to be hurting and grieving and upset regardless.  So don't pour more salt on the wound by continuing contact with these people.   Deal with your hurt and your life without them. [/quote]

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