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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex changed in his approach to sex and during sex around year 6 or 7 of marriage. It was not a big change but it drastically impacted how I felt about it and absolutely killed my desire for him. I started avoiding sex (doing as rare and as fast as possible). After 4 years of that we got divorced. His attempts at talking about were very similar to what I didn't like about the new approach. I did not feel any desire coming from him, more like demands. It was all about him, about his sex life, just like you are describing your "it was so bad I wanted to stop". [/quote]

I hear this so much from women. They find out they are married to a selfish prick who is letting the wife know it's her job and she'd better do it.  The DW on here is the same way who threatened divorce, is currently cheating and bragging about it. To those of us who are in good marriages it's very clear why they are in the circumstances they are in. A marriage is about 2 persons needs.  They aren't always in sync.  No matter who you marry it will always be that way whether it's sex or other important aspects of the marriage.
I've had friends divorce and sure enough some years later... or sooner it's other problems. Often much worse.

There are some very unrealistic and immature posters on here that should be single. 
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PP from above. The change in my case had nothing to do with what you are talking about, nothing about "it's wife's job". Somehow neither my ex nor I have those problems now, each found a match. [/quote]

That's great. Every case is different but those are common themes.

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