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[quote=Anonymous]Dear OP, I went through exactly the same thing. I married very young, divorced after a year. Few years later, I met a man that turned my life upside down. We had a great relationship, marriage, friendship, or that’s what I thought. Five years into marriage, he cheated on me. Left me for his AP. I was crashed, devastated, broken. However, I am not sure whether I wanted to make it work because of my love for him, or because I could not take failure for a second time. I think that that was the hardest thing for me. Thinking about a second divorce was too much for me to even consider. I was determined to save the marriage. But one day, I woke up and I saw with clarity that I was no doormat. His love love story failed, and after two months he wanted to come back home. I kicked his ass. We didn’t have kids. Worked very hard through therapy to recover my self esteem. Few years passed by, I have the best family and the most loving husband I could ever have wished for. I made it. It was very hard. I cried a lot. But I put myself first. Therapy helped tremendously. Good luck and time will telll you what the right answer is. [/quote]
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