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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Okay, we will try to go to counseling tomorrow or as soon as we can get an appointment.  DH will definitely agree to that.  I feel a bit emotionally exhausted and cannot imagine talking to a counselor (even this threat has been hell for me).

Obviously, I wish I could turn back time and dump him and not have had two kids at least.  But, I wanted children so badly, so I wonder if I was purposefully blind to the way he was treating me and this is my fault.  In any case, I can not turn back time and I am not going to make the children suffer, so I will have to somehow make it work.
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I don’t see why you would spend any time trying to convince his weird friends anything about you. Why waste your time? You’re not going to spend time with these people are you? You should not. Neither should he but I guess you will have to wait for him to grow up (perhaps in counseling). Don’t you have your own friends and family to spend time with? Stick to giving emotional energy to decent people who deserve your time.

If anyone should be sending a letter or explaining anything to these people it’s your DH.
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