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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe set up a 529 for the kid(s) and have them deposit directly into it. Don't touch it for years. That way, you can take the money and run, but it's for the kids, and it's not spent. The inlaws will probably still bad mouth you. But now you've got the money. And if they try to hold the money over your DH, he can say, you can take it back, it's all still sitting there in the kids accounts. If you want to take the kids college funds away, you can do so. I'm sure people will understand that. [/quote] That's what my DH suggested... Just sending the links to the 529s. Still feels like they'd be able to complain about not seeing their grandkids after giving them money, though. [/quote]
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