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[quote=Anonymous]Love happens without rational thought. If you are so head over heels right now, have her come here for a couple of weeks if she is she is willing to do that. Many women from other countries are pretty smart and not nuts about non issues, like he told me he loves me, but is not in love with me right now. (see another thread today about that).They have more realistic vision of marriage, kids, home life. More like it is about all of us, not all about me. I am an immigrant and DH is white bread US. In many years, I have to say, we have the best marriage of all the family and friends I have here and back home. We are not perfect, but sometimes it happens that you run into that perfect match, and you take it. To me the alternative is pretty depressing. You don't act on it, and you never know, was she/he the right one? I always tell my kids about applying to school, playing a sport...if you don't try it you will never get in a school you want, or see if you are good at a sport or not. I have the similar few about relationships, in the same country, different countries, whatever the scenario, if you don't take the chance you will never have anything good(or bad happen,) that is a pretty sad way to live.[/quote]
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