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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That’s the career I chose, but it won’t always be these crazy hours. If you met a resident doctor, you wouldn’t date him because of he works too much? [/quote]

If I were in my mid-30’s probably not.  If I were in my mid-twenties I probably would.  But that’s because I think it would take a lot longer to get to know someone when you can’t see them as often. I have that kind of time at 25, not at 33 if I want to have children sooner than later.  Also, in my 20’s, I could always find other people to hang out with at any given time.  What, boyfriend is working this Saturday, oh my co-worker friends all planned to go out the wings place, a bar, and then the club so no worries.  In my 30’s, with so many people married with young children, it’s tough to even make plans for a lunch meetup on a Sunday.  I would be both dating and spending lots of time by myself in the case of a workaholic. Yet you don’t even know if it’s a relationship that can go the distance.

So I think OP, one option might be be to see if friends know someone or reconnect with college or med school networks. One thing is if you are 50% sure you don’t want kids, what happens if you marry someone that definitely doesn’t and then you decide that you do?  Does this mean divorces dad with kids is out?[/quote]

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