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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A tip from my vat of unfortunate lessons learned.  If your DH expects back-from-trip-sex (as a tradition), don’t skip it.  My saying no, I’m tired, got him thinking (correctly) that something was off with myself[/quote]

Easier still to just be a person of integrity instead of leading a life of deception.[/quote]
High horse DCUM. There is no integrity in keeping a sham marriage. [/quote]

PP here. I'm not on a high horse at all. No one is perfect. But you are absolutely lying to yourself if you think going through life lying and deceiving others won't affect who you are as a person. If you do it, you lack integrity. Doesn't matter what any of us on DCUM think; it's just a fact of life.[/quote]
It was very honest of me to wait for the spouse to cheat so I didn't need to explain why I filled for divorce. There was no sex in the marriage because I avoided it.[/quote]

If you are being open about your life and aren't posting ironically (as a spouse involuntarily in a sexless marriage) I think this shows bravery and insight. I believe my own husband is trying to get me to be the one to leave by turning off the sex spigot. It seems my AP's wife  knows he doesn't want to be the bad guy and is counting on his staying but ceased having sex years ago and relies on his guilt toward her as a way of controlling him. So far it works but I think eventually he'll have had enough. That's if we don't get caught first.  [/quote]
I have patience, I can wait, no insight. I didn't want to go to marriage counseling or try to salvage anything, which would have came up if not for cheating.[/quote]

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