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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A few years ago, I messed up badly at a job. I was young and dumb, and I made mistakes. The employer turned out to be a really vengeful person. She blasted what I did all over the internet and actually wrote a blog post about it. She also included screenshots of some text messages that we exchanged. My name is distinctive and that website is the first result in any google search about me. I have no proof, but I think it is costing me jobs.

What can I do? I have thought about suing her for defamation, but she has proof of everything she says. She also has a lot more money than me and hates me enough to fight it out in court. She refuses to take the website down. [/quote]

I agree with the other PP who suggested apologizing. Not only apologizing but owning up to what you did, and recognizing how it negatively affected her.

I know this is going to be difficult to do, and make you feel uncomfortable but you would be surprised how many people will forgive the wrong-doer after a heart-felt apology.  And you must do it face to face.  it's really hard to maintain that same level of resentment when you're the person who is apologizing to you is sitting 5 feet away from you.

If that doesn't work, then go to Step 2, the legal route. Good luck OP.  [/quote]

Do NOT apologize in writing [/quote]

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