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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Leave. It's not like you ever had an awesome sex life with the guy, it sounds mediocre at best. The why isn't that important, but that it's gotten worse matters[b]. Do you want to spend your life this way[/b]?[/quote] No but I’m not sure being a single mom will be better. [/quote] Then don’t complain. Sounds like you’ve resigned yourself to this. [b]Why women have kids with men they’re not totally in love with and crazy about [/b]is beyond me. [/quote] Because not everyone is fortunate enough to fall madly in love with someone who also loves them back. [/quote] That doesn’t appear to be the case here, as she says “I should have left” and complains about his past history of drinking. I feel 100% confident in saying it’s another case of baby fever trumping a good marriage and now the OP is stuck. When will you all ever learn?[/quote] DP. Meh. What’s to learn? There are trade offs in life. I’d rather have a divorce and a baby than no divorce and no baby. Some women miss their reproductive window so they can hold out for Mr Perfect. Then he turns out to be wrong for them in the end. There are no guarantees in life one way or the other. [/quote] I have a friend who is 50 and we told her to stop using birth control years ago. She's very lonely. The guys like most didn't last, and she really messed up. Always put your kids first or having kids first. [/quote]
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