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[quote=Anonymous]So, did you ask the night before what the schedule was?  From your DH or anyone?  If you went to bed the night before without finding out the schedule for the next day and then missed the boat because you were late and Mr. Murphy made your morning worse, then you don't get upset at everyone else.  You take responsibility for not checking what time things were going down and being ready.  In addition to checking what time everyone was starting, you also could have checked your gear the night before to make sure you knew where it all was.  It only takes about 2 minutes to ask what time and to do a quick check that your gear is all there, and doing it the night before guarantees that when something has been moved, that you find it then instead of when everyone is waiting for you.  Waiting until you are getting ready to leave to try and find things on the first day of a trip is just asking for trouble.

By getting upset enough at your husband that others noticed enough to ask him aside about your fight suggests that you made a big deal about it and the others were not comfortable talking to you about it.  You need to own up that you were at fault for not checking the start time and being ready on time.  You definitely don't blame others for not hanging around waiting for you to get ready because you didn't know what time they wanted to leave.  And you don't hold them responsible for stubbing your toe and whatever else made you grumpy.  If this is your reaction after getting back and to the other PPs who responded, then I can see why the others on the trip asked your husband aside what was wrong rather than talked to you.  You've made a mountain out of a molehill and are aggressively answering PPs even after getting back supposedly after having time to cool off.  I can't imagine what your emotional response was like while you were actually on the trip.[/quote]

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