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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DS turns 5 on September 27th and in our state, any kid who turns 5 by September 30th is eligible to go to Kindergarten. His preschool teachers have me advising us to redshirt him though. However, I feel like this would be morally wrong. I feel like redshirting him would would be cheating and giving an unfair advantage over his classmates. In our family, playing by the rules is heavily valued. Even though I know he will probably do better if we wait a year, I'd much rather he learn the value of hard work and fair play. In general, I would a lot better if he did okay in school, playing by the rules, than if he excelled in school by cheating. I also don't want criticism from other parents for gaming the system.[/quote] My daughter turned six on sept 27 this year. We’re in MD, so she started K this year at nearly six. I grew up on VA and knew if we lived there she would go a year earlier. Is that cheating and “morally wrong “ also? Given that so many states have differing cut offs I don’t think this is a question of morals. I do think the extra year turned out to be a good thing for my kid. If I lived in VA maybe she would have gone a year earlier and been fine, no way to know. From what I can see now, halfway through K, she’s in just the right place now. [/quote]
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