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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you know her sexual history? Did she used to sleep with a lot of guys? Was she an enthusiastic lay? I'm not asking to label her a slut; I'm asking if she used to really enjoy sex.  I was my ex-wife's 17th partner. The first 10 years of our marriage we had sex frequently and spontaneously. She loved getting laid.

After kid number 2 things slowed down big time and I thought it was just turning 40, raising two kids, work stress etc. But, something was off. We talked about it and she said her desires had just changed and she was stressed out. I found it hard to believe that someone that used to love getting laid would just stop needing it.

So, I started digging through emails and calls (I know) but didn't find anything. I started doing weird things like adjusting the front passenger seat in her car way up close (too small for a grown man) and checking to see if it had moved. I even bought a little tracker thing like Tile and stuck it in the trunk. I couldn't find anything.

In the end ,I found out she was screwing a coworker while at the office. I was driving her car one day (kids soccer carpool) and when I got in the driveway the bluetooth on the van picked up a call in the house. I sat in the driveway and listened to my wife tell her coworker that she loved him and couldn't wait for upcoming work travel.

I didn't tell her I knew. I went into evidence collection mode and prepared to get full custody. Which, I eventually did.

Anyway long story short. A duck just doesn't stop swimming. She's screwing someone else. Sorry.

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Adultery gets you full custody?  Really?  And how does a Bluetooth pick up a call if she’s on her mobile making it?  This sounds fishy.[/quote]

Courts don't like it when contracts are broken, which adultery is.

I don't know the technology but, yes, the bluetooth picked up the call and put it on the stereo speakers just like it does when you're in the car doing the handsfree thing.[/quote]

Don’t believe you.  If the car Bluetooth picked it up, she would no longer have been able to hear the call on her phone.  She’d be all like, “hello? Hello?” and not telling her coworker sweet nothings.[/quote]

NOT the PP but my cell absolutely connects to the car without dropping the signal. I remember being mortified at a gas station one spring morning while having a conference call about nasty diseases (I work in public health) blaring through the speakers while I pumped and paid the attendant in the kiosk. I was 15-20 feet away but the whole gas station was looking at me while "Are there lesions? Discharge?" was blaring.[/quote]

Yeah but we’re you holding the cell and still hearing the call or was it only coming out of the speakers?  I think the latter.  That’s just how the tech works.[/quote]

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