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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Those who say it doesn't matter -- you're kidding yourself. When someone's appearance changes radically from how they looked when a relationship started, it's very likely their partner will become less attracted to them. Not always, but often.

My husband's weight has fluctuated a lot since we first started dating. After initially losing 50 lbs, he has gained about 20 back (putting him at about 10 lbs overweight). It's all in his chest/stomach area. He doesn't want to be overweight, eats well, but simply doesn't have time to exercise regularly. Do I love him less? Absolutely not. Am I less attracted to him now? A little bit. I just ignore that part of his body, frankly, when we're being intimate. The sex is still amazing.  [/quote]

Its funny, say that to a woman she would cry and stop speaking to you, say it about a woman and the hypocrites will come out of the wood work. 10 lbs over is even remotely an issue for you? He must be short, 10 pounds "overweight" is barely  if at all noticeable on man[/quote]

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