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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your daughter has borderline personality disorder.  She has no sense of self and is waffling between being completely dependent on you and completely dependent on her boyfriend for her identity.  I agree with getting yourself to therapy to figure out how to drop the codependent relationship from your end.  [/quote]
How did you come to that diagnosis?[/quote]

The daughter has traumatic brain injury, or did you miss that part?[/quote]
Doesnt that make it more likely she will have emotional instability and a personality disorder?[/quote]

Yes, in part. It does not mean she has borderline personality, it means she has TBI and the physical and emotional sequalae from that. People on here need to stop armchair diagnosing and start co side ring the pathology what has already been explained. She may have concurrent illness/disorder, but chances are her reactions are only the result of the normal behaviors and lability expected from TBI. [/quote]

Really?  This is a teenage girl who is cutting, in an emotionally abusive relationship, pregnant, and vascilating between cutting off her parents and going to live with them.  [b]Does this seem normal to you? [/b]
As I said, the OP needs to recognize that she and her daughter have a messed up relationship, and the OP needs to change her part in it.
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Who said anything about “normal”.

What part of TRAUMATIC brain injury is lost on you? Do you know what happens to a brain when it’s injured? It means life is never the same.

As you can’t seem to use common sense, medical science, or the Google, you can refer to some of these, or you can research yourself:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/7874099

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3927143/

http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.3109/02699059509004574?journalCode=ibij20

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