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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a great husband, does a lot, cares about me, doesn't slack off. I STILL don't find sex with him interesting any longer. I do it -- very regularly! -- but the biological idea that women get bored and want somebody new more than men do resonates with me.

I'm happy in my marriage -- as a co parenting, co living situation. Do I find my husband attractive, sexy, interesting? No. But this is mostly not his fault. [/quote]

Heresy. I've been reading DCUM for a long time now, and have come to learn that lack of desire in a woman is always due to the man's failures. [/quote]

Most men are more interested in sex than most women over the long haul.  It's not men's failures, it's just that the obligation falls to the one who wants it more to make life more interesting.  Learn to flirt over the cours of the day with touch, looks, words.  My ex fought hard against the notion that I needed my flame stoked...'not fair I have to do all the work' he said.  How's that working out for him now?  He'll either learn to flirt or be whining 'not fair' again in a couple of years.[/quote]

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