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[quote=grace4ever]I’m sorry that you are going through. It is a difficult situation that you are in. Even in the darkest moments there is always hope. It is understandable the way that you feel because everyone expects that our husband accept us and affirm us as wives. Counseling can be helpful to work things like this. . You and your husband are valuable and worth fighting for. I’m hopefully both of you can restore your relationship.  I encourage you to forgive him. Forgiveness does not mean that he is doing right but it is that you appreciate more the relationship that you have with him and let go each other differences. Also I encourage you to discern if you and your partner can improve the relationship and see if both can solve the problems and motivate each other to forgive and start again.  Get help from an objective party who is a position to help you that is a good choice.  Have you ever heard about the book: His needs and her needs by William Harley Jr.? It is an interesting book of a psychologist based on his experiences of counseling married couples. He discovered that the problem is not in the communication but in learning how to love your spouse. This book was a great tool for me when the things did go well in the relationship with my husband however it helped us very much. .  I hope this can help. I do not know if you whether believe in God but I will keep you in my prayers my friend. Keep us posted, Ok? [/quote]

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