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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've gone through a toxic divorce from an abusive but very charming charismatic man. He's used the system to alienated my children and punish me for having a happy successful life.

More and more data shows that the calculating and cruel often abusive party ends up winning these cases most of the time and takes children from from the involved caring parent.  Here's a report from across states:

http://www.leadershipcouncil.org/1/pas/dv.html

50/50 and capped child support (based on income ratio) is the only possible just system. Steep financial penalties for contempt. Divorce is a new life, not a residue of the marriage. Even if they live out of state, summers and holidays can be used to make up.[/quote]

Very few judges, at least in our experience, will go against the CP in terms of visitation or anything.  There are some that do, but usually they go with what is easy.  It would be nice for financial penalties for contempt, especially for visitation but then one would argue your are hurting the kids by making the CP pay.  We couldn't get the judge to refund an overpayment that the CP took in a really shady way (Dad had retirement plus regular income and she filed for a garnishment on both and got paid double/out of both) and judge refused to force her to pay back the money.  Nor, did they forcer CP to pay back for the plane tickets she refused to allow child to come after agreeing.  They didn't even force her to pay her share when she said no.[/quote]

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