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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]would you rather the party girl who slept with 30 guys and got nothing for it but an std?

Just asking. [/quote]

There’s sooooo much more in between those two extremes it’s not even funny.

OP, I’m a huge believer in what happens before me is none of my business in terms of body count. All I need to know if any STDs or babies came from your past.

When it comes to sugar babying or other sex work, however, it’s a different story. That’s not just sexual behavior. There’s a whole other mentality that comes with exchanging your body for money and using sex to extrapolate money from men. I’d tread very, very carefully here. That’s not a mentality that’s easily shaken and ends once you get the exact amount for your loans. As a trust fund baby-friend she could’ve petitioned for a loan that was paid back over time. That she’d opt to have sex for money says A LOT.

What happens if you fall on hard times while married? You don’t want to be with a woman who would even think of sleeping with a guy for money as an option. There are TONS of women who would take on an extra job or sell cans before their bodies.
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I don’t understand her rationale anyway. You do not have to repay loans while you’re in school. I know people who went straight through to a PhD to delay repayment. She did not have to pay off the 1st loans to get another.[/b]

And yeah, I think she’s holding back. No one volunteers one prostitution story and thinks it’s okay unless the truth is much more sordid. Only then does “I sold my body to one guy” seem okay.

Why did she tell you anyway? Any chance she wanted to beat the mutual friend to the punch?

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The loan rationale is most certainly a lie. Repayment on student loans is paused while you are in school. You're in finance dude...do you think that every person who gets and MBA has paid off their undergrad loans, if they have them? Do you think that evey student who goes directly to medical school or law school from college either doesn't have undergrad student loans or manages to come up with tens of thousands of dollars over summer break?[/quote]

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