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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why do you think you attract "bad" behaved men? Or choose such men?[b] Women can tell from few sentences from a guy and even from his demeanor is he is a jerk or not[/b]. Why even go out with such a person? I have to agree it is your poor choices. Lack of judgement?  Better not to go out at all than to go out with a jerk. First you must respect yourself. Respecting yourself is different than being jerk to other people. I'd rather be single than with a jerk.[/quote]

I'm not sure that this is true. Women who find themselves in abusive relationships will say that the guy seemed nice at first. I think boys and men have a better sense of which guys are abusive and which guys aren't, simply because they've had to navigate around bullies their whole lives. [/quote]

Yeah my mom (and many women after her) fell hard for my toxic narcissist dad because he was suave, clever, amusing, and seemed nice. The hidden jerk only became evident over time.[/quote]

With all due respect, this is probably BS. If you date someone seriously for 6 months(so pretty much seeing them every week-long distance relationships are tougher), you can pretty much tell what kind of person they are. It takes too much energy to keep one's true self hidden for that long.

Maybe your dad is part of the 1% of the population that is an expert at lying and concealing, but odds are your mom chose to ignore all the warning signs.
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Two women before my mom, and five women after my mom, "ignored all the warning signs" and married him anyway... or he's really good at concealing what an asshole he really is until he's gotten them to the altar. I like the latter explanation.[/quote]

What idiot marries a man who has 7 xwifes?[/quote]

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