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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he’s a fed and gets off work at 3 he’s getting into work before 7, easily. That’s not easy nor lazy. I don’t believe he works less than 40 hours/week because that’s not really a thing, at least not in my agency.

So this and he’s responsible for all of the childcare and it’s his fault things aren’t running smoothly? Take a hard look in the mirror and acknowledge your part in this. He doesn’t owe you anything. I doubt he and your kids give a damn about how much you make or how hard you work. Get a new job, simplify, and be a family.[/quote]

+1. OP, you sound like all of those men who expect their wives to do 100% of the childcare and domestic work just because they (the men) make more money. He works full time, too. Just because you work time-and-a-half doesn't mean that he has to work two full time jobs. The house/kid stuff has always been both of your responsibilities.

My guess is that if we heard from him, he'd say you do absolutely nothing at home besides complain, and it's too much work, so he gave up.[/quote]

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